So if you're reading this you may know me from my music, or you might know me from my YouTube videos, while others might know me from my personal life. You could also be a new visitor too! Either way you've landed here because you're interesting in dealing with others and you would like to learn just about anything you could get your hands on. This is the best fighting spirit my friends, for you're here because you want help, and I'll be able to offer a solution to the naysayers.
A Part of the Group
Okay so when we begin to talk about people who don't believe in you, we have to be specific. Is this people who don't approve of your dreams, people who don't believe in things you say, or people who don't believe you exist? Well, chances are you could be a combination of all of those points. Hold that thought for a second and think about what drives you to get up in the morning. Why do you spend time on the internet but more importantly what do you do on the internet?
So it's such a ginormous dream that you really want to do this and there's these ideas just bubbling up inside of you which you can't help. Perhaps there's a bit of latency to getting into chasing those goals because others criticize or have criticized your ideas before. These people typically are individuals that can't understand why you have this energy, why you're like this, why you smile so much, or even why you aren't like them, a part of their group.
How Does She Get Treated?
Truth be told that these type of people who must ask why you're like this over and over again guilt and shame us into believing we have some sort of problem, yet the irony of this is that they are the actual problem. People who don't believe in you nine times out of ten do so for a very selfish reason, which might shock you as a reader. Hear me out: People who don't believe in you are those who are NOT willing to change. I'm talking about YOU who wants to be different, feel different, and act different, but most importantly you want your life to be DIFFERENT. So as you know by now, it is those who don't understand you that usually look down upon you.
It might be the person at the job you were interviewing for. It might be the people who live with money and privilege. If you're a woman reading this, it might be that lady who you just don't like who always has something to say about your personal life, you're problems, etc. If you are someone who has social anxiety, it may be those awful humans who just can't seem to be friendly towards you but you're not doing anything. Or heck, if you're a food service or retail employee you might have just about had it by now with the customers and you're getting ready to quit your day job because of the co-workers, guest, management, etc.
Yeah, you might ask well now how in the HELL do I deal with these people? And... here's my answer... You getting ready to see what I have to say??? You don't. YOU don't deal with someone who doesn't want to change/ & It is how it is. You wanna know how a girl or guy will treat you in a relationship? Pay attention to how they treat your waiter/waitress when you take 'em out to a date.
Virgin = Not a "Real" Man
Listen my friends, I've had people all over my life tell me that I can't do music, that I should go to college, smirked or chuckled a little when I told them I'm going to start a business, etc. I've had dozens and dozens of haters tell me that I'm nothing, when I grow up I'll be living with my mom and my sister would have to call the police on me, even had one person say to my face that I'm a terrible person because I wouldn't give them free gas on my shift. They yelled at me because they don't know how to pump their own damn gas. But wait NO here's my favorite: I've had a fat, out of shape female tell me that I'm not a "real man" because I was a virgin at the time. Mind you this was in high school, freshman year. I've had family members and my own mother tell me I'd just be like everyone else, that I'll be an alcoholic when I grow up, came out selfish just like my father etc.
But you probably don't care about all of that, do you? Let's just be honest, we like to talk about ourselves instead. You don't care because none of this affects you in the same way that none of the wars in the middle east have any effect on you, or how children in poor countries fight to death over territory, or how people in South America have poor access to health and nutrition. So you don't care about it because it doesn't benefit you, but I'm here to show you how reading all of this can benefit you plus how those bad moments are actually blessings in disguise.
Rock Bottoms are Hidden Blessings
Bad moments give a way to inspire better moments. When you have a bad moment, or no matter how piss poor your situation is, remember that there's always someone who has it worse than you do. All of those times it's happened to you is a pathogen to grow you as a person, because you are literally one giant cell. So what does the white cell do when it feels something isn't right within the bloodstream? It fights off the infections until the threat is out of your system, just like an anti-virus software on your computer quarantines and removes dangerous files, so does your natural body.
I know it might sound like common sense at this point, but the idea is that you don't want to associate with average! THIS is your solution, guys and girls, you want to BLOCK the haters, the nasty situations, your family, etc. If you can't get rid of them right away, keep trying until you do. Figure out your own end goals that are going to remove these THREATS from your life, and your life will become better. Yes, I know when we're talking about sensitive topics such as family, friends, and close loved ones the atmosphere becomes pretty heavy, but this is the only sane way that you will deal with them.
Broken Tools, Broken Dreams
You can't deal with a shitty tool, so why keep using it? You have these options: Keep using it, try to improve upon it, or throw it away. And when I say this metaphor, please don't take it 100% literal, lol. I mean that you would like to get as far away as you can from the average person because the average person can't understand your goals or your passion and why you're even reading all of this or maybe why you're frustrated. The average bosses who I worked under in my past are just that, average. The average neighbor can't lead you to another level...
It takes an EXCELLENT neighbor who will bring you the next level. It takes a highly motivated individual who will give you what you're looking for. I mean yes, I could be applying for jobs right now because I'm low on funds but FUCK that. Perhaps you should be concentrated on your studies or you may be questioning why you aren't happy, well this is what you're going to do. From now on, find what your end goals are; write it down, fold it, type it on your laptop, phone, whatever. Find out who you want to stop contacting in your life and push towards achieving this goal!
The people who don't believe you are just people who don't see what you see.
Always remember that - And so this is all I have for today, but not for tomorrow! Stay loved & safe, PLEASE share with someone you know if you feel this post has resonated within you or any of this text has inspired you. I'm out ~