Hello! Depending on what your beliefs are, we've been around forever since Earth has consistently grown. And there are three women I've been attracted to who share the exact same traits yet they're all different people. That's creepy yet mind-blowing at the same time.
^ This above is an attribute to a signature I saw once on a user who posted in a forum and I still remember it to this day for whatever reason lol. Whenever I think of relationships though, that quote still comes to mind.
So readers, if you know me you know I'm always on the grind. Although, there are times I can't bring an idea to life. Maybe because I've been stuck in my room all day just wishing the end result would come. Let's be serious and real here; you all need to earn that shit. And it's been like this for much of your lives! Now the year is 2018 however, and I've set goals to move out, be the guy I'd love to be, and get these page views so that I'm actually getting friends who care what I have to say, not just notifications from spammers.
Sigh. ): Not a god damn thing has changed.
While I was browsing the internet, I became so bored out of my mind I began to look up cute girls on my phone to get me excited. No, it's not what you're thinking though/ Yeah I might watch erotic films, but I've been pursuing my dreams so much, I've become a staunch supporter of NoFap. Do you people remember when Atlanta rapper Young Thug said he doesn't care about sex? Not taking it there, but there's been times I don't even care about this stupid, cheaply-made pornography on the internet. It's crazy, you know.
So what am I getting at exactly? Well, I've titled this post what kind of women do you all REALLY like? What is the unique qualities on the opposite gender that you become thirsty for so much, you talk to them on the phone trying to hook up. You people reading this know exactly what you're attracted to! It's that certain hair color, height, astrological sign, and combo that y'all fiend after! There IS a reason why when you see a chick/man who's exactly your type ladies and gentlemen, you turn around to check them out!
But enough of the fantasies, there is definitely a reason why you're attracted and there's definitely algorithms at play here. If you don't know what that means, the reason you even have a "type" is because maybe the universe already set you up to like certain things. Duh, right? You might be saying this, but you'd be surprised how much of your life, even down to your crushes was already set for you to have an "attraction" towards... It's almost like your life was already planned out and shaped before you existed!
I don't know: Let me tell you a simple story that happened in my life. I met a girl at the Postal Office. She was super, freaking cute but meeting her didn't really lead to anywhere which sucks. Her name was Lydia, and she genuinely seemed interested in me like I did in her. Lydia was a very genuine person. She liked traveling to other countries, studied nursing at Kennesaw state, interested in supernatural events, etc.
Couple days later, I relapse. I'm scrolling through this shitty website and I see a thumbnail that catches my eye. I clicked on the video and the girl who was starring was freaking gorgeous. An amazing, stunning blonde. Because of how curious I was though, I paused it and decided to find the girl's name. This is usually how intuitive and competitive I am, to the point where I will literally be more entertained by 'looking' for the pornstar rather than actually watching her. Some people might call me weird for that but I enjoy figuring out puzzles like this and connecting the pieces.
Like I said, the contracted performer went by stage name Kylee Reese. Her bio gave a medium form of information, actually. Real name Tiffany Faren Bowyer on December 9, 1985 in Reno, Nevada. Reese has one brother and three half brothers. She started out in the adult entertainment industry as a stripper in Carson City, Nevada. Reese eventually moved to Los Angeles, California with a boyfriend. As it turns out, she was homeschooled too! It kind of made me feel a little bit guilty because when I read that part I was like, "wow no wonder I watched this girl and instantly had an attraction to her aura."
So I eventually found her and it wasn't hard at all. Not finding her name would've sucked because I was attracted to her, even if she was basically a whore. This is why men still like watching girls on film despite what their occupation is because men are visual creatures, and yes that is even why they will categorize certain actresses into women of their "type" Life is all a number's game, and niches are what makes the porn industry successful. Just look at Japan.
Now, this is weird but I also actually really like Kaley Cucuo. I think she's pretty attractive, and I can remember liking her as far back when the Fappening happened and all those celebrities' pictures were leaked into the public. Get this however: After I did some research and looked up, "Sagittarius, blonde, homeschool" I began to see a pattern. The women that I'm attracted to had all of these characteristics. For example, Kylee Reese was someone I came across just that same day yet I was already in love with her. (Not really though haha)
My point is that maybe we are all actually designed to like the same people or those with similar backgrounds and attributes that they had in their lives! That might be why you keep coming back to that one person who you know is toxic yet you don't care! Ever wonder why all your ex's look, walk, act, and even grew up in similar fashion? It's probably because nature has programmed you to 'weed' out the rest of the population so you'll only want specific humans. This is popular selection at it's finest. Although, still even if this is true you can still like someone that'll break your "rules".
This is why in the dating world and all over the universe, the Law of Averages will still apply. Remember, outliers come to disrupt the conforming data, so don't get hung up on who you bring into your life or if your future is already planned out. Try not to think about it too much and just enjoy yourself! Peace, let me know what "type" you have in the comments folks!